"When I first came to Ellie I thought my problem was porn and ED. I was disconnected from my partner and, if I'm honest, disconnected from myself. I'd tried to fix it on my own for years, but I always ended up back in the same place.

Working with Ellie helped me realise that porn was never really the issue. It was how I was using it to escape feeling disconnected, overwhelmed and inadequate. For the first time, I stopped fighting myself and started understanding myself.

The changes didn't happen overnight, but over the months I found myself becoming calmer, more present and more confident. The compulsive pull towards porn gradually lost its grip. My erections returned naturally as I became more relaxed and connected to my body, but more importantly, I became a better partner. I found the courage to have conversations I'd avoided for years, and my relationship has become more honest, affectionate and intimate than I ever thought possible.

This work has changed far more than my sex life. I feel like I've got myself back. I feel more alive, more grounded and more at ease in who I am as a man. Working with Ellie has been one of the best investments I've ever made in myself."

James, 47 London

I've been working with Ellie now for some time and she's changed my life. I was always searching for that next dopamine hit and leaving on a high but then soon after feeling empty and depressed like something was missing. I needed a reset.  I decided to dive into the a 1;1 mentoring package, started learning to control my urges, to ride my erotic wave, last longer and control the beast. Suddenly I was having sessions and enjoying not spilling over. I took this into my vanilla life and I felt more confident, in control, not looking at porn, not doom scrolling Instagram for all the tittilation. Ellie challenged me to go 30 days without ejaculating. I said you're joking? Nope she was serious! 30 days seemed impossible but after I managed the first week the rest was easy. When I went back and saw Ellie she gave me one of her tantric massages and without even trying, just through relaxing into arousal I had the most incredible full body orgasm I'd ever had and now I'm hooked. Hooked on this journey, whether 30 days or 40 days or 50 days it doesn't matter I ejaculate if it feels right for me and my body my mind and soul. I don't always need to ejaculate it's just when my body says it's ready and when it happens it's so special. I never would have got there without Ellle's guidance, nurturing and support.

George 58, NZ

“Just wanted to say hi and give you an update. Thankyou so much for the work we did together. I’m very much enjoying this new found Tantric connection with my wife. I have a lot more sexual energy and love the sensations that go with it. Although my wife is not doing it with me, without a doubt she is benefiting from what I’m doing. This is apparent in her wanting to have sex with me on a much more regular basis and her suggesting things more often! I wish I was able to connect with you decades ago - my younger days would have been different lol
But better late than never to learn these things. I wish to thank you very much for for your help and wisdom.”

David 62, NZ

“I have never felt so open and vulnerable with another human being and yet so accepted. In my sessions with Ellie, I was able to heal a lot of shame and discover a deeper connection to myself and my sexuality.”

Stephen 35, Aus

So much has changed for me. I feel rebuilt. And made to realise the man that was still there even though broken. Your presence and care restored my faith in women. I’m not trying to prove myself anymore, I know who I am. I feel more relaxed now around relating and trust the right person will come along when I least expect it. I feel more capable of showing up as the man I truly want to be in all of my relationships.

Nigel 62, NZ