Men’s Sexuality & Intimacy Mentoring
Private sex and intimacy coaching for men who want greater sexual confidence, deeper intimacy and a more connected relationship with themselves and their sexuality.
I work with men online worldwide, and in person in London at selected times of the year, offering personalised support around sexuality, relationships, sexual confidence, performance anxiety, sexual habits, intimacy and sexual energy.
My role is to meet you where you are while gently challenging you towards greater presence, clarity, authenticity and aliveness.
In short, I help you become more fully yourself.
My Approach
My work has its roots in tantra, where the body is included in the path of transformation and sexual energy is understood as something to be respected, cultivated and integrated into life.
Because sexual energy isn't just about sex. It's life energy, and it quietly shapes the way we relate to ourselves, our partners, our sexuality and life itself.
Rather than focusing on what's wrong, we focus on cultivating what's possible.
Together we'll explore:
• Greater awareness and self-understanding.
• A more embodied relationship with yourself.
• A conscious relationship with your sexual energy.
• Deeper intimacy and authentic connection.
• Practical tools that regulate your nervous system to create lasting change, so you are no longer driven by old habits.
Why Private Mentoring?
After working with thousands of men, I've developed an approach that brings together sexuality, embodiment and practical tools to support lasting change.
Private mentoring allows us to tailor the journey to:
Where you are today.
The challenges you want to overcome.
The man you're becoming.
A pace that supports lasting change.
How We Work Together
Sessions are available:
Online via Zoom — from anywhere in the world.
In person — at selected times from my private London studio.
In-person sessions in London may include therapeutic tantric bodywork or tantric massage where appropriate, always guided by clear boundaries, consent and your individual needs.
Each session is shaped around you and what you're ready to explore.
A Different Kind of Journey
My approach is nervous system-led, and a nervous system learns through repetition, not insight alone. That’s why meaningful transformation doesn’t happen in a single session. It unfolds through consistent practice, honest reflection and the right support over time.
Work With Me
Every man arrives here with a different story. Whether you're looking for support with sexuality, intimacy, relationships or sexual confidence, you can choose from a single session, ongoing mentoring or a more immersive experience. Together we'll find the approach that's the best fit for where you are and where you want to go.
Private Mentoring
For men who are ready to create deeper, more lasting change.
Unlike a single session, mentoring provides an ongoing container for change. The work doesn't begin and end in the session itself - it unfolds through consistent practice, reflection and support between sessions.
Online Mentoring
Online mentoring is the heart of my work. We meet one-to-one on Zoom, with voice note support and simple home practices in between, so you can build the skills to regulate your nervous system and step out of old patterns around porn and sex, wherever you are in the world.
3-Month Program | £1,350
(or 3 monthly payments of £450)
Six private sessions, about every two weeks, 60-75 minutes each. A focused journey for men who want to shift a pattern and build new foundations.
6-Month Program | £2,400 (my recommended path)
(or 6 monthly payments of £400)
Twelve private sessions, about every two weeks. Time to go deeper, work with what’s underneath the habit, and make the change last.
Both journeys include:
Personalised home practices
Voice note support between sessions
Ongoing guidance and accountability
In-Person Mentoring (London)
Available in London until the end of January, and again from summer 2027. Join the waitlist.
For men who want a more immersive experience. Being in the room together allows for a different kind of work, including touch.
Foundation Mentoring | Four sessions | £2,000
Four private sessions, approximately 2 hours each.
Deepening Mentoring | Six sessions | £3,000
Six private sessions, approximately 2 hours each.
Includes: personalised practices, weekly integration support between sessions and ongoing guidance throughout.
Where appropriate, sessions may include therapeutic tantric bodywork or tantric massage, always with clear boundaries and ongoing consent.
Hybrid option: combine online mentoring with a London session at the start, middle or end of your journey.
VIP Day
£1250 - 6hrs
A private day devoted entirely to you, in person in London. Limited spaces, available until the end of January and again from July.
Includes:
A pre-call to shape the day around you
6 hours together, with breaks
Conversation, embodied practice and nervous system regulation
Therapeutic tantric bodywork where appropriate, always with clear boundaries and consent
A personalised practice plan to take home
Bonus: book a 3- or 6-month mentoring program within two weeks of your VIP Day and £250 comes off the program.
Single Online Session
60-75 minutes | £250
A focused one-to-one session to explore a specific challenge around sexuality, intimacy, relationships or sexual confidence, gain clarity and identify practical next steps.
Ideal for repeat clients who want to dip back in.
Single In-Person Session
2 hours | £600
A private in-person session for men wanting to explore sexuality, intimacy, sexual confidence or sexual energy in a more immersive setting.
Depending on your needs, sessions may include therapeutic tantric bodywork or tantric massage, always within clear boundaries and ongoing consent.
Aliveness Retreat
For a profound reset rather than another holiday.
A private, immersive experience over 2-10 days, designed around you. Through conversation, embodied practice, intimacy work and therapeutic tantric bodywork, we create the space to step away from everyday life, explore what wants to change and reconnect with yourself.
Also available for couples wanting to reconnect and rediscover the spark in their relationship.
By application, in the UK, Europe and further afield. Private retreats typically range from £3000-£15,000 depending on length and scope. We can chat about what you’re hoping for and work out a retreat plan and budget that best suits you.
You can apply for an Aliveness Retreat Discovery call
Training & Experience
For over fifteen years I've worked with men around sexuality, intimacy, embodiment and personal transformation through private mentoring, workshops and international trainings.
My work draws on professional training in somatic practice, trauma resolution, conscious sexuality, tantra, Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy and nervous system education. More than anything, it has been shaped by thousands of hours working directly with men and witnessing the patterns, challenges and possibilities that emerge.
Certified Somatic Sex Coach
Sexological Bodywork
Trauma-Informed Practice
Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy
Tantra & Taoist Sexual Cultivation
Somatic Trauma Resolution & Embodiment - Alchemical Alignment
Group Facilitation Training