Men’s Sexuality & Intimacy Mentoring

Private mentoring is both a privilege and an honour for me to offer.

My role is to meet you where you are while gently challenging you towards greater presence, clarity, authenticity and aliveness.

In short, I help you become more fully yourself.

My Approach

My work has its roots in tantra, where the body is included in the path of transformation and sexual energy is understood as something to be respected, cultivated and integrated into life.

Because sexual energy isn't just about sex. It's life energy, and it quietly shapes the way we relate to ourselves, our partners and life itself.

Rather than focusing on what's wrong, we focus on cultivating what's possible.

Together we'll explore:

  • Greater awareness and self-understanding.

  • A more embodied relationship with yourself.

  • A conscious relationship with your sexual energy.

  • Deeper intimacy and authentic connection.

  • Practical tools that create lasting change.

Why Private Mentoring?

After working with thousands of men, I've developed a simple framework that supports lasting change.

Private mentoring allows us to tailor the journey to:

  • Where you are today.

  • The challenges you want to overcome.

  • The man you're becoming.

  • A pace that supports lasting change.

How We Work Together

  • Online via Zoom from anywhere in the world.

  • In person from my private London studio.

  • In-person sessions may include tantric bodywork where appropriate.

  • Packages are designed for longer-term transformation rather than one-off sessions.

A Different Kind of Journey

Meaningful transformation doesn't happen in a single session.

It unfolds through consistent practice, honest reflection and the right support over time.


Work With Me

Every man arrives here with a different story. Whether you're looking for a single session, ongoing mentoring or an immersive retreat, we'll find the approach that's the best fit for where you are and where you want to go.

Private Mentoring

For men who are ready to create deeper and more lasting change.

Unlike a single session, mentoring provides an ongoing container for change. The work doesn't begin and end in the session itself - it unfolds through consistent practice, reflection and support between sessions.

Online Mentoring

Five private sessions | £1,000*

Ideal for men who want ongoing support while integrating this work into everyday life.

Working online allows you to work with me from anywhere in the world through personalised guidance, practical tools and ongoing support between sessions.

Includes

  • Five private mentoring sessions

  • Personalised practices

  • Weekly integration support via email

  • Ongoing guidance and accountability

Ten private sessions | £1,800**

Ideal for men who want a deeper exploration and ongoing support over a longer period of time..

Working online allows you to work with me from anywhere in the world through personalised guidance, practical tools and ongoing support between sessions.

Includes

  • Ten private mentoring sessions

  • Personalised practices

  • Weekly integration support via email

  • Ongoing guidance and accountability

(*must be used within 3-months.)

(**must be used within 6 -months.)

In-Person Mentoring

In-person mentoring sessions are available in London, offering a private space for deeper embodied work.

Designed for men who want a more immersive and embodied mentoring experience.

Working together in person creates space for deeper nervous system regulation, embodied practice and the kind of transformational change that is experienced through touch and in person contact.

Foundation Mentoring

Four sessions | £2,000

Four private in-person mentoring sessions (approximately 2 hours each)

Deepening Mentoring*

Six sessions | £3,000

Six private in-person mentoring sessions (approximately 2 hours each)

Immersion Mentoring*

Ten sessions | £4,500

Ten private in-person mentoring sessions (approximately 2 hours each)

All in-person mentoring includes

  • Personalised practices

  • Weekly integration support between sessions

  • Ongoing guidance throughout the programme

For clients working in-person, mentoring may also include therapeutic tantric bodywork where appropriate.

Touch has a unique capacity to reveal patterns that conversation alone cannot. By working directly with the body, we can explore your relationship with your nervous system, sexual energy, pleasure, arousal, consent, embodiment, and your capacity to both circulate energy and receive

*These sessions are intentionally flexible, allowing us the time and space to work at the pace your process requires.

Private Online Session

75 minutes | £250

A focused one-to-one session designed to explore a specific challenge, gain clarity and identify practical next steps.

Ideal if you're new to this work or would like to experience my approach before committing to ongoing mentoring.

Private In-Person Session

2 hours | £600
London

A deeper, embodied session where we can work directly with the body, nervous system and your relationship with intimacy and sexual energy. Ideal if you're new to this work or would like to experience my approach before committing to ongoing mentoring.

Depending on your needs, sessions may include therapeutic tantric bodywork.

Aliveness Retreat

If you're seeking a profound reset rather than another holiday, an Aliveness Retreat offers a deeply personalised mentoring experience designed around your unique journey. Together we'll create a bespoke immersion that supports lasting transformation through conversation, embodied practice and therapeutic tantric bodywork.

I also offer these experiences for couples wishing to re-kindle that spark!

Available June – January throughout Europe and the UK and throughout New Zealand/Austailia Feb - May by application. These private retreats are individually designed and typically range from £3,500–£10,000*, depending on the length and scope of the retreat.

You can apply for an Aliveness Retreat Discovery call here.

(*please note: Travel, accommodation costs are additional.)

Training & Experience

For over fifteen years I've worked with men through private mentoring, workshops and international trainings.

My work draws on professional training in somatic practice, trauma resolution, conscious sexuality, tantra, Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy and nervous system education. More than anything, my work has been shaped by thousands of hours sitting with men and witnessing the patterns that emerge.

  • Certified Somatic Sex Coaching

  • Sexological Bodywork

  • Trauma-informed practice

  • Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy

  • Tantra and Taoist sexual cultivation

  • Somatic Trauma Resolution and Embodiment -Alchemical Alignment

  • Group facilitation training